Positive mindsets are important to have in life to get your through your ups and downs. I have learned a lot throughout my early to mid twenties, which is an important time of our young adult life to self reflect. My lessons learned is why I am here today to share with you my 5 mindsets that has transition me into the person I am today.
The 5 mindsets that changed my life
- Get out of your comfort zone: I am much more an introvert in life and an extrovert online. Go figures! But I’ve come to learn the more I open up and walk out of my comfort zone, the more I build confidence. Once we retrain our thoughts that fear is just another challenge to overcome and that fear is something that can be CONQUERED, nothing will stop us from achieving our goals. Nothing.
- Let go of all the things you can’t control: This is a given. A lot of the time we all hold onto some type of grudge towards someone or something. Letting go of all negativity, traumas, and things that no longer serves you. Feel that weight being lifted from your shoulders? This can lead to inner peace. We all need that to keep pushing through whatever you are going through.
- Choose your surroundings wisely: You know the saying, you are what you surround yourself with! You have the choice to end the toxicity cycle that you are living. What sense does it make to deal with people who drain you from your energy? Once I started to realize my energy was off, I reevaluated my surroundings. I started asking myself what needs to change. Once I made that change, my life blossomed in ways I never thought it could. I am where I am today and am more grateful than I have ever been.
- Put your thoughts into action: This is easier said than done and it took me a very long time to , I had talked about making a blog for about a year until I finally made it a reality. Now, look where I am today. I’ve not regretted it one bit!! I also spent a good 6 months talking about making Instagram makeup videos and at the end of 2019, I made it happen. All that talk and finally I’m turning them into a reality. I’ve realized you don’t need all of the fancy equipment. Not everything needs to be perfect when you start doing something that you really love and enjoy. As long as you start is all that matters.
- How do you want your story to end?: I feel like this is a powerful question. I mean, how do you want your story to end? Think about all the things you want to do. Think about how you can make use of your talents. Most importantly, create your DREAM REALITY! Think of it like this; You are the only person LIMITING yourself and your future.
- The two P’s – have patience & be positive: We all expect things to happen overnight. One thing I have learned was that things will fall into place when they are meant to. We expect to snap our fingers and have everything fall in our laps. Obviously, it doesn’t work that way. Once you accept that fact and let go of what you can’t control, things will happen sooner then you know it. It all boils down to having patience and being positive!!
Okay, guys. Now you know my 5 mindsets that have changed my overall perspective in life. Life is great. You just have to change your way of thinking. It’s all mental! What you preach out to the universe, MATTERS! No more, “I can’t do this” or “I’m not good enough”. Positivity is the key to happiness. If you are that negative Nancy and you have no clue why things are never going YOUR way, ask yourself why? If there is one thing I’ve learned in life is to never stop learning and to always be appreciative.
I challenge you to share 5 mindsets that have helped transform you into a better person. Share details down below!
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